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Dreams

What you see before sleeping or after sleeping, or I can say with open eyes or closed eyes. If you see the dreams while sleeping, will you remember it? I think nobody does. Whoever see their dreams is with eyes open. The dreams always related with them. You can say that it motivates the human being. In human history, the great achievement starts with the dreams. The meaning of dreams are sometime simple and sometimes complex. It is very difficult to understand someone else dreams. To understand the meaning, you have to understand other persons life and everything. It makes a person breathe. Sometimes it helps you solve the problem which was difficult for you to tackle. Dream is as mysterious as brain. It’s difficult to predict. As the time passes, So many person thinks that the meaning of dreams has changed but that is not the fact. They gets confused between dream and goal. They think both are same. You have control over your goal but not on your dreams. How anyone sees their dreams i...

Father

  Father or grandfather is the head of the family. He takes care of everything in the family. He doesnot have any excuses for anything. He is a mircale of life for the family. My father is now around 70 years old. He is still my hero. Nobody knows what kind of sacrifices he made till now and many more to come in the future. He was not a strong person for certain times. He comes from middle class family. He had an unpleasant journey in his life even he worked for 30 years of his life. My mother is also a supportive person. She always helped my father. I do not know if somebody understand that Father is strong word Even if the person is strong or not. They have done so many sacrifices for the family and child. He has so many faces like strongness, politeness, supportive, Honest.

Family

  Family is most precious for anyone like man, women, kid, adult, or old age person. It helps anyone in their upbringing. Even there are two person can also make a family. You get the inheritance of kindness, honesty, discipline, made aware of their surrounding, a lot of things. There are different ideas and opinion inside the family. Family member is like the fingers of hand. Sometimes you will have the argument or different opinions on same problems or work. That’s how you will able to make decision. Everything has ups and down and same for family too. Sometimes you have seen that the head of the family is very strong but because of family member, he becomes weak and not able to make the decision. He fails as a family member too.

Anger

Anger is a kind of emotion which you will see most of the time. Everyone has experienced firsthand. World has changed in my opinion. People are less polite now a days. They become angry on simple things or matter. Never get angry on anyone or anything. Because the decision taken on anger will never be a good decision. It bring the worst in everyone, negative thinking and destruction. It corrupt the thoughts of person and judgement. It is the root for problems and difficulty. Whenever you have a problems or difficulty, be patient and calm. Then try to see the facts and then make a decision. And try to understand the reasons behind the decision. Whenever you are angry, try to breathe in and out and count to 10. It will help you to keep your calm. I think everyone knows this kind of example of "road rage". I think everyone watch the news or heard from their friend or known person about the road rage. It becomes common everywhere. You get angry on strangers because of their actio...

Fight

  Fighting is good and bad both. It depends on the scenerio. Fight comes in every form in your life. It can be physical and mental both. Physical fight also depends on the situation either good or bad same for mental also. You have to fight for your chances or oppurtinity. The best way to win the war is without fighting. If you are cable of fighting, it doesnot mean that you have everything. The person who is able to forgive has the power to win the fight is the biggest winner.  The person who is weak, if he will talk about forgiveness. No one will believe but even he can also forgive.

Friendship

  What is one of the strongest power in the world? Friendship. Friendship has a very deep meaning. Everyone has a lot of friends either a kid, adult or old age. There are kind of friend who is only on name basis and there are who will do anything for you. When you will be in problem, friends will help you in different forms. Money will not work every time but the friendship will be there. I think many of you has heard about the pen friend. The person whom you never met in person but you know him by writing letters or some other way. Now a days social media is going viral. Every body is there on social media either facebook, instgram or other social media. They make friends from there also but are they reliable like old days? Nobody knows until he fall in difficult situation and will come to understand. There is saying goes" You will come to know about the true face of people when you are in bad situation". It's difficult to earn the friendship. You cannot ear in one or tw...

Fear

  Fear is a depressing and broad word. You cannot describe in few lines. If anybody hear about this word it gives a negative sensation in their body. There are a number of fear like fear of ghost, water, fire, height, exams, stage and so on. Everybody has a fear either a poor of rich person. It can destroy a family or even society also. Everybody has heard about "Mahabharata". If somebody has not read this book and i suggest you read this. It's not about the religion. It's about right and wrong. Suyodhan know as Duryodhan had fear to lossing the kingdom or king status, he fought with his cousin and at the end he lost all his brother to war. Because of fear he lost everything. Donot fear with fear. It helps you achieve anything. But there is saying "excess of everthing is bad". If you take fear for granted, it will give you negative thoughts and ultimately you want to be alone, get depressed and thinking of doing harm to yourself. So, overcome your fear in li...

Learning

Learning is a broad and motivational word. It is not limited to time and age. It can be anything. It can be done in any age like kids, youth, adult and even in old age also but it depends on person's motivation and eagerness. Sometimes some of them are quick learner and some of them are slow learner. It doesnot matter. What matter is that you learn. Even if takes time, keep other worries out of your mind. It can be done in the guidence of teacher and even can be done by self study. It can be done in all angles like any field. If you focus in any field, you can achieve anything. It is more effective in quiet and peacful place. If you want to learn something, you have to empty your mind. Keep your mind calm with positiveness, ready to learn and accept that thing and keep your attitude a side. Its like you can't put water in half filled glass. Its dangerous. Different meaning will come out from that which will be harmful for you. So, keep learning with faith, believe and keep your...

Success

  There are so many theory and concepts for the success. One thing is sure is that it doesnot have a straight path. The path always vary depending on the person. Everyone has different path. Success always comes after the failure. That's not the hard and fast rule. That's not always true. Sometimes it comes in a small period of time and sometime after a lot of failure. The truth is you have to always try. Donot hesigate for the your hard work. You have to be patient about your work also. If you have to reach from one place to another. There are always so many path. some goes straight to destination, some after moving here and there. So be patient about the journey and you will achieve your goal. For example in cricket all the ball doesnot have six. In some ball you got one run, in some you got two run and in some you got four or six. Every run matters and that's how you get the victory. 

Kids

  The minds of kinds are very simple and clear. They donot know anything. Whatever they see, they learn from them. Sometimes you see their activity, it feels like honest, full of excitment, cutness and so on. Their mind is like a blank slate. You can write anything on it. Now, it depends on their parents for their future. sometimes they think too much on that. What i suggest is that let them enjoy their childhood and then give them some resposilibility for the future purpose or otherwise you are going to give the stress. Donot compare your kids with anyone. You tell him about the strugle, competiton but never compare. They have a number of opportunities and to gain in any directions. They donot know their limits. Nobody came in this world with talents, its you who make them. Its their parents or guardians who help them understand the surroundings. They are unaware of the rules and regulation of society or world. They don't care in a way and that's why they can achieve anything....

Love

Love breaks all kind of barrier but never get trapped in any barrier. Love doesnot have a physical form. Its a feeling which can be feeled by anyone. It can be with wife, parents or kids or relative. This is the basis of life. It can be one sided or both. It exist beyond life and death. If you love someone doesnot mean that person will love you back, but you have to careful with this feeling. Always honest with this feeling otherwise you will have a problem with your life and other things. Love is like a swiming in river in same direction with the current. If you are not honest then its like just opposite, swimming in opposite direction of the current.You will face a lot of problems. Love is a kind of medicine which heals people. It exist beyond time.    

Compromise

  This is a very heavy word. Who does the compromise: The rich one or the poor one, male or female, kid or adult?  It never depend on anything. You will find it everywhere. Some says life is all about compromise. If you have done it for the first time, then it will come the next and the next and like this will go on. It will never stop. You have to be very careful about that and proceed further without doing it. It becomes a part of life. Sometime people didnot notice and then do the compromise. It goes like an daily activity. You have to consider the situation all the time. While considering you have to understand whether it will affect your life or some other way. In your daily life other person will also tell you to do the compromise. They donot understand the downfall of compromise. Is it so difficult to resist? Not sometimes, most of the time. Most of the person thinks that why to waste time on these silly things, better to compromise and move on. Sometimes its to think l...

Problems

  Everyone has a problem in their life wheather its small or big. Anyone is born has some problems. Some of them try to solve it and some find it difficult and ran away and some, they even don't know and it gets resolved. Some are short term problems and some are long term. Whenever you have any problems, try to be patient and think with cool or peaceful mind about that, don't get hasty or angry and take any action about that. You will get a solution definitely. This is how you live your life. Sometimes you will not be happy with the solution but make a peace with the result you got. Never ignore your problems. If you do that it will become bigger and dangerous sometimes.

Mind - Full of mysteries

  The mind is a delicate and complex thing. It is protected by hard skull. It is the most important part of the body. Body will not function without this. You donot know whats going inside of any person's mind. It's a fact. The mind of a kid is like a blank slate. You can write anything, but it depends on the person whether he or she wants to write something good or bad. If you wants a kid to become a good person, you have to let him or her know what is wrong and right. Let him understand the meaning of both. The person has to be have a hope, postiveness, good heart, creative for the good mind. To get a negative thinking, its very easy but to have a postiveness, its very difficult. The people around you might give you a negative thoughts like said "one rotten tomato can rotten the basket full of tomatos". you always have to remember be positive in your life whatever the scenerio maybe. Sometimes its very difficult to stick to that thinking, or  to walk on that road bu...

Control of Ourself

  What control means? To control someone, to show that you have the power or be kind or hunble to someone, control of life, anger, happiness, desire and so on. control also has two sides. One has positive aspect and the other has negative aspect. What's the meaning of positive aspect? To help someone achieve greatness. It will be done by ourself or with the help of others also. Negative aspect cause harm to ourself and to others also. Who is able to understand better? kid, adult. It does not depend on age. The kid has honesty, innocence, and has the strength to achieve anything. They have the capacity to learn anything in short period of time. Control is everything in a life of human being. If you are not able to do it, your life will fell apart. It will flow like river who's direction is not decided by itself but others. There is a saying "excess of everything is bad". You should have a control over this. For example If you put water in glass filled with water, the w...

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Suggestion

  Everybody thinks that suggestion is given to someone else but this is not true. You can give suggestion to youself too. Suggestions can be useful and harmful both. A person from birth to death has always gets suggestions from surrounding persons and some body charged for that. Everybody will give you the suggestion but when it comes to implementation, nobody will help you there. They think that he is the best person to give suggestions despite that they lack so many things in their life. They will suddenly become the ecpert. I have seen from the childhood, in our surroundings, everybody is ready to given you the suggestion. They will try to compare with other person or individual but they never try to tell about themselves. There is saying" Drop by drop you can fill the sea." So if you want to change your surroundings, first you have to change yourself then the others will change. You can change your surroundings.

Freedom

                                                 Freedom is very vast topic. You cannot measure it. In all over the world, most of the country was ruled by some other country. I think almost everyone is aware of this. They understand the value of freedom. The person who was there at the time of freedom, he values more compare to the person who was not there at the time of freedom. This is the tragedy of life or i can say freedom. Life is all about freedom? Who knows? The person who has it or the person who has given it or given by their parents or their elders. Just like given by the Krishna to the pandava and others from Adharma in mahabharat. Freedom is easy to come by. There is always a war either full of violence or non- violence. Freedom comes with the cost and responsibility. If you get the freedom in silver plate. you will never know the importance and will...

Family

  Family is most precious for anyone like man, women, kid, adult, or old age person. It helps anyone in their upbringing. Even there are two person can also make a family. You get the inheritance of kindness, honesty, discipline, made aware of their surrounding, a lot of things. There are different ideas and opinion inside the family. Family member is like the fingers of hand. Sometimes you will have the argument or different opinions on same problems or work. That’s how you will able to make decision. Everything has ups and down and same for family too. Sometimes you have seen that the head of the family is very strong but because of family member, he becomes weak and not able to make the decision. He fails as a family member too.