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Time

  Time is a parameter to measure anything. It's very complex. It's very difficult to understand this. If you see the time on Earth, there are so many species evolved and so many got extinct. If you noticed that it doesnot belong to anyone. The opinion of time changes depending on each person. The human being who is very successful in his life, everybody will think that his time is good and who is not successful. You will think that the time is not good for him but remains the same for everyone. We measure the time in hour, minute, seconds etc. for our convenience. Everyone comes here with limited time. They forget about the time while busy in their normal or abnormal life. It becomes a everyday routine for everyone almost. They forgot that their time here is getting less day by day. SOme thinks that they have to utilise the time which is given to them and some thinks litle different. So the point is who is right or who is wrong? If you see, everyone has diferent ideas to use th...

Fight

  Fighting is good and bad both. It depends on the scenerio. Fight comes in every form in your life. It can be physical and mental both. Physical fight also depends on the situation either good or bad same for mental also. You have to fight for your chances or oppurtinity. The best way to win the war is without fighting. If you are cable of fighting, it doesnot mean that you have everything. The person who is able to forgive has the power to win the fight is the biggest winner.  The person who is weak, if he will talk about forgiveness. No one will believe but even he can also forgive.

Friendship

  What is one of the strongest power in the world? Friendship. Friendship has a very deep meaning. Everyone has a lot of friends either a kid, adult or old age. There are kind of friend who is only on name basis and there are who will do anything for you. When you will be in problem, friends will help you in different forms. Money will not work every time but the friendship will be there. I think many of you has heard about the pen friend. The person whom you never met in person but you know him by writing letters or some other way. Now a days social media is going viral. Every body is there on social media either facebook, instgram or other social media. They make friends from there also but are they reliable like old days? Nobody knows until he fall in difficult situation and will come to understand. There is saying goes" You will come to know about the true face of people when you are in bad situation". It's difficult to earn the friendship. You cannot ear in one or tw...

Earn

  Earning is very important for everyone. In earlier days earn means not only the money but prestige, fame and so many things. They were mostly focus on prestige, fame and power. Now a days the meaning has changed. If somebody is talking about the earning means everybody will assume that they are talking about money nothing else. Everyone wants to earn something in his life, wether its money, fame or anthing else. Why? For his family and his offspring. Its human nature and because of this, he spreads positiveness, honesty and so many other qualities or lessions to others. A life lession is very important to other as experience. but without example, if you say something to others, they will not believe. With example, you donot have to say anything to anyone. They will realise by themselvies.

Fear

  Fear is a depressing and broad word. You cannot describe in few lines. If anybody hear about this word it gives a negative sensation in their body. There are a number of fear like fear of ghost, water, fire, height, exams, stage and so on. Everybody has a fear either a poor of rich person. It can destroy a family or even society also. Everybody has heard about "Mahabharata". If somebody has not read this book and i suggest you read this. It's not about the religion. It's about right and wrong. Suyodhan know as Duryodhan had fear to lossing the kingdom or king status, he fought with his cousin and at the end he lost all his brother to war. Because of fear he lost everything. Donot fear with fear. It helps you achieve anything. But there is saying "excess of everthing is bad". If you take fear for granted, it will give you negative thoughts and ultimately you want to be alone, get depressed and thinking of doing harm to yourself. So, overcome your fear in li...

Responsibility

  Responsibility is a heavy word to bear. Who is responsible? The one who is taking a responsibility maynot be the head of the family or leader of the society or who is earning in the family. Anyone can be responsible for family, friend, society, work related or anything. Responsibility is not count for only word but for the actions you took for them. Responsibility comes with a number of tasks or you can say own work. They have to propritise others work or their requirements. They has to think before act. If you are taking a decision, its not for one person. It's for whole family or society. If anybody takes the responsibility, it doesnot mean that you say the word and the job is done. That's it, your work is finished? You have to carry the work also. You have to fulfil the things that you have told. You have to do the work continously until the work is finished. Its not something everybody can achieve.

Learning

Learning is a broad and motivational word. It is not limited to time and age. It can be anything. It can be done in any age like kids, youth, adult and even in old age also but it depends on person's motivation and eagerness. Sometimes some of them are quick learner and some of them are slow learner. It doesnot matter. What matter is that you learn. Even if takes time, keep other worries out of your mind. It can be done in the guidence of teacher and even can be done by self study. It can be done in all angles like any field. If you focus in any field, you can achieve anything. It is more effective in quiet and peacful place. If you want to learn something, you have to empty your mind. Keep your mind calm with positiveness, ready to learn and accept that thing and keep your attitude a side. Its like you can't put water in half filled glass. Its dangerous. Different meaning will come out from that which will be harmful for you. So, keep learning with faith, believe and keep your...

Truth

What is truth? What we have seen or what we heard. If we believe on somebody, what has been told is their truth. Truth and believe are interdependent, without one another cannot exist. To know about the truth, you have to sit on the chair of third empire. Its like a match. Everyone thinks that what they say is truth in their view. But the person siting on the third empire chair, he knows whats the truth because he knows all the possibility. Its difficult to understand the truth and its more difficult to accept it.

View

  The point of view is very different from other things. Sometimes right and wrong varies depending on point of view. sometimes something is right in one's view but the same thing is wrong in other person view depends on point of view. Problems are always there in everyone's life. wether it's a poor or rich person. The problem is big in one's view but the same problem is small in other's view. Some times a person try to avoid it. They are not ready to face it. Sorry to say that but it results in dangerous situation. How do you see your problems, that's the thing. If you see that in a simple way, you will be able to solve it. No matter the kind of problems. But if you see in a complex way. It will be difficult for you to solve it. and will result in difficult situation. So, try to live in a simple way.

Success

  There are so many theory and concepts for the success. One thing is sure is that it doesnot have a straight path. The path always vary depending on the person. Everyone has different path. Success always comes after the failure. That's not the hard and fast rule. That's not always true. Sometimes it comes in a small period of time and sometime after a lot of failure. The truth is you have to always try. Donot hesigate for the your hard work. You have to be patient about your work also. If you have to reach from one place to another. There are always so many path. some goes straight to destination, some after moving here and there. So be patient about the journey and you will achieve your goal. For example in cricket all the ball doesnot have six. In some ball you got one run, in some you got two run and in some you got four or six. Every run matters and that's how you get the victory. 

Kids

  The minds of kinds are very simple and clear. They donot know anything. Whatever they see, they learn from them. Sometimes you see their activity, it feels like honest, full of excitment, cutness and so on. Their mind is like a blank slate. You can write anything on it. Now, it depends on their parents for their future. sometimes they think too much on that. What i suggest is that let them enjoy their childhood and then give them some resposilibility for the future purpose or otherwise you are going to give the stress. Donot compare your kids with anyone. You tell him about the strugle, competiton but never compare. They have a number of opportunities and to gain in any directions. They donot know their limits. Nobody came in this world with talents, its you who make them. Its their parents or guardians who help them understand the surroundings. They are unaware of the rules and regulation of society or world. They don't care in a way and that's why they can achieve anything....

Judgement

  Judgement is very strong word. It has two sides just like the coin: right and wrong. Its very easy to make decision as a third party but when you become first or second party, Its very difficult. You don't know what is wrong and right. Even if you are able to know the story of both the party, its difficult to tell the difference between right and wrong. When you loose your calm, you will loose the capability to make the decision. So always calm and open minded and ready to hear the every paty's opinion with patience and then decide. It's not given by anyone. Person should have a strong mental ability and patience, should get influenced by any party. Normal person doesnot have the capability.

Love

Love breaks all kind of barrier but never get trapped in any barrier. Love doesnot have a physical form. Its a feeling which can be feeled by anyone. It can be with wife, parents or kids or relative. This is the basis of life. It can be one sided or both. It exist beyond life and death. If you love someone doesnot mean that person will love you back, but you have to careful with this feeling. Always honest with this feeling otherwise you will have a problem with your life and other things. Love is like a swiming in river in same direction with the current. If you are not honest then its like just opposite, swimming in opposite direction of the current.You will face a lot of problems. Love is a kind of medicine which heals people. It exist beyond time.    

Balance

  Balance is most suitable word. How to balance your life with everything going on? Its very difficult. You donot have to spend all time with only one thing. You have to find time for each and everyone and everything, then it will be possible. Lets just say you are a working person then you will have to balance both professsional and personal life. After working hour, stop doing things which is related to office, start doing things with the family and others. Everyone should have the same preferences in your life either work or family member. Sometimes you find it very disturbing and have to stick to that. personal and professional life both are connected to each other. If one gets affected, the other will also have problems. If somebody thinks that its not related then i can tell that he is in dilema or living in fantasy. Everything is connected with each other in this world or universe. 

Compromise

  This is a very heavy word. Who does the compromise: The rich one or the poor one, male or female, kid or adult?  It never depend on anything. You will find it everywhere. Some says life is all about compromise. If you have done it for the first time, then it will come the next and the next and like this will go on. It will never stop. You have to be very careful about that and proceed further without doing it. It becomes a part of life. Sometime people didnot notice and then do the compromise. It goes like an daily activity. You have to consider the situation all the time. While considering you have to understand whether it will affect your life or some other way. In your daily life other person will also tell you to do the compromise. They donot understand the downfall of compromise. Is it so difficult to resist? Not sometimes, most of the time. Most of the person thinks that why to waste time on these silly things, better to compromise and move on. Sometimes its to think l...

Problems

  Everyone has a problem in their life wheather its small or big. Anyone is born has some problems. Some of them try to solve it and some find it difficult and ran away and some, they even don't know and it gets resolved. Some are short term problems and some are long term. Whenever you have any problems, try to be patient and think with cool or peaceful mind about that, don't get hasty or angry and take any action about that. You will get a solution definitely. This is how you live your life. Sometimes you will not be happy with the solution but make a peace with the result you got. Never ignore your problems. If you do that it will become bigger and dangerous sometimes.

Perspective

  The "coin" has two sides: Head and Tail. Everything has the same. Its all about thinking. Some says life is all albout strugle and some says different things. The point is that it depends on you how you want to proceed in your life. You are on the driving seat, so you decide. Sometimes person put all blame on others or life or luck. Even if a single thing changes in your life, you are responsible for that, not others. Be positive in your life and try to live your life the way you wanted to be. One person has different view and other has different view for the same thing like 2 trains going on same direction with same speed. The person sitting inside one train will the see the person sitting in other train will feel like both are steady but the person outside the train can see the train moving. Its all about point of view.

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